Something very interesting when down on Facebook last night.
I follow Pinky McKay (popular lactation consultant) who published an article on
BubHub called “Does my baby need a feeding routine?” What makes this
interesting is that Tizzie Hall (Sleep Professional) took offence and posted a
response. I follow both these
ladies out of interest first and foremost, but because they seem to be the
extreme of each other. Here is their argument.
Pinky McKay wrote, “expecting a baby to eat according to a
strict regime, which restricts the duration and quantity of feeds, is not only
unrealistic but can also contribute to a failure to thrive.” What Pinky is
basically saying is that if you put your baby on a feeding timetable, they won’t
put on weight.
Tizzie Hall wrote in response that, “if this was true why
would special care baby units put prem babies on a feeding and sleeping routine
to help weight gain.” Interesting counter argument don’t you think? All three
of Tizzie Hall’s babies were placed in special care units. She then goes on to
say, “to get discharged from hospital all three… had to be on a four hour
feeding routine.” What Tizzie is saying is that feeding routines encourage
weight gain.
Now most of you would be familiar with Pinky McKay and
Tizzie Hall. So, for a new mum out there I can see why parenting can be so
confusing. So who is right? Both have years of experience and training in their
field. Can they both be right?
Here is where I stand, exactly in the middle. I think they
are both right. Why does it have to be one way or the other? Shouldn't there be a healthy balance between the two? Why can’t
lactation consultants and sleep consultants work together? Food and sleep are
the two basic needs of a newborn, apart from love. When I work with a family
who has a newborn, I look at both. Establishing healthy feeding is a priority but
so is sleep. If your baby isn’t eating well, they are not going to sleep.
If you solely look at feeds and whenever your baby cries you
feed them, this will encourage them to snack feed and fall asleep on the boob.
The feed will not be complete. Only having a little food in their tummy will
mean your baby will cat nap and wake up hungry.
If you solely look at a sleep schedule, your baby may in
fact be hungry and you will have lots of crying as you try and force them to
sleep. This is not fun for any mother or baby.
My advice is to educate yourself on both topics. Choose
someone like me who will sift through the extremes and actually teach you how
to read your babies tired and hunger cues. Having a loose schedule helps you to
determine if your baby is tired or hungry. Forcing a baby to eat when tired
isn’t the answer either. Establishing healthy sleep habits from birth does not
include any sort of ‘cry-it-out’ methods. Not all sleep consultants are
militant about schedules and hopefully the same goes for lactation consultants.
If you are confused and do want a little direction, contact
me about my newborn programs. Arming yourself with the right information is
about making your job as a parents easier, not harder.
Janelle Jeffery
Sleep Coach and owner of Sleepytime
Here is the link to the Pinky McKay article http://www.bubhub.com.au/hubbub-blog/does-my-new-baby-need-a-feeding-routine/
